The Lying Game: If you've already caught her up in the "lying game", it may be a for sure sign that she has something to hide. One lie is acceptable, two is out of control and three strikes means you're out! If you have information that she may be doing something behind your back, bring it up and see how she reacts. If she doesn't make direct eye contact or changes the subject, she's lying!
Another Man's Cologne: If you happen to hug your girlfriend and she smells like the cologne of another man, don't rule out that she may be cheating on you! If she doesn't have brothers or a dad that wears that brand of cologne, she will be empty handed when it comes to excuses. If it's not the cologne that you wear, where is it from? Question her on it to see what she says, and as usual, if she takes to long to answer, refer to the "Lying Game" tip!
The Arguing Stopped: If you're girlfriend has always been the type of person to argue about every little thing, then all of a sudden switches up, there may be something wrong deeper than the surface. If she stops the arguing, nagging and complaining about your bad or disgusting habits, that means she doesn't care anymore most of the time. Anytime she doesn't care about what's going on with you, she may be directing her time elsewhere.
A Sex Drought: If you and your girlfriend used to always engage in passionate sex and then one day she switches up and doesn't want you to touch her, this may be another sign that she is seeking attention elsewhere. Try to touch her and take care to see if she moves away or changed the subject when you're talking about sex. If she acts different when it comes to this subject, confront her on it to see how she reacts!
Overtime at Work: Sure everyone works the overtime shift every now and then, however; if she constantly talks of working overtime at her job, something may be wrong. While you could just be over reacting, you may not be! Check all of the above signs when she gets home, ask her about work, give her a hug to see if you smell another scent, don't just come out and accuse her though without any proof, however; be cautious!
A Case of Paranoia: If your girlfriend gets defensive or paranoid when you ask her simple questions, this is really a for sure sign she is up to something, nothing good! How does she act when you reach for her phone? And ask yourself, when she is on the phone, does she leave the room or talk in code it seems like? These are all signs that she may be talking to that "other man". Ask her about her conversation after she gets off the phone, she if she plays the "s-t-u-t-t-e-r game"!
She's a Past Cheater: If your girlfriend was known for cheating in her previous relationshipsbefore you, this is a guaranteed sign that she may be cheating if you detect all of the above signs. If she had a boyfriend when you got with her, she may be doing the same thing to you that she did to him, cheating! You should always be cautious of a past cheater, be cautious before trusting the things she says, and check everything out to make sure it's true!
