Your Approach
Her brain quickly vets your height and facial
symmetry the moment you meet. Now convince her of your character.
Approach confidently; don’t pretend to bump into her. Men tend to talk
to each other at angles to avoid confrontation. But women face each
other head-on and maintain eye contact.
Your Introduction
Your Introduction
A good handshake isn’t a shortcut to her bed, but a
bad one can doom you. Hands are loaded with tactile nerves, and people
with weak, clammy handshakes were perceived as shy and neurotic in a
recent study. So hold your drink in your left hand and give her a firm
but not bone-crushing grasp. Pay attention to her grip as well: The same
study showed that women who give firmer handshakes tend to be more
adventurous.
Your Voice
The most attractive women prefer deep-voiced men.
It suggests high testosterone levels, a sign of strength and
reproductive prowess. Push out air with your diaphragm, not your throat.
This lengthens the column of air moving past your vocal cords.
Your Icebreaker
Your Icebreaker
Say something that will draw out details about
her. “Your friends seem nice—how did you get to know them?” is a
compliment and a window into her past. Forming a bond will release
dopamine, a mood booster in her brain. Show off your interest with
verbal nods of agreement (“uh-huh,” “go on”).
Your Conversation
Your Conversation
We all know to ask lots of questions and to avoid
flat-out boasting. But don’t sell yourself short. Women listen very
carefully for signs of status and wealth. Keep any references to
financial or personal success oblique, though—let her curiosity draw out
the details. Another crucial conversation tip: Talk at the same pace
she does and she’ll consider you intelligent, kind, confident, and
ambitious.
Your Body Language
Attraction causes couples to mirror each other’s
body language. But don’t be overeager to connect. Stay relaxed and let
her set the tone. Fidgeting conveys nervousness and triggers the
empathetic release of stress chemicals in her brain. Once she brushes
your shoulder or thigh, reciprocate within a minute or two. Or touch her
inner forearm, a nerve-rich zone that will create sparks.
Your Deal Closer
Your Deal Closer
If you’ve made the right sort of first impression,
she might be wondering how you are in bed. Consciously or not, she’s
looking for signs that you’re patient and sensitive to the ways her body
finds pleasure. Show refined tastes and sensitivity the rest of the
time and she’ll suspect you have others worth exploring—back at her
place.
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